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Posted on March 8, 2010 - by Guest

Solo travel in India: A Letter from Calcutta

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Shelli Trung of Talks Time submitted this piece as a result of a call for posts on the Facebook Solo Travel Society page. When I first read it, shivers when up and down my arms and my eyes welled up. It’s a beautiful, emotional post written in the second person. It speaks directly to you, the reader. My thanks to Shelly. Please enjoy. The photos are by Rachael Dobbie.

Calcutta, now Kolkata, is dressed in contrasting architecture with its colonial past still very much obvious today. Unlike many other cities in India, the gardens here are neatly trimmed; the roads have marked lanes; and your foreign presence is less of a novelty. (more…)

Posted on February 10, 2010 - by Guest

Why I Travel Solo

Welcome to guest blogger, Andy Hayes. Andy is a professional writer, published author, and probably not
as introverted as he’d have you think. He’s the editor of Sharing Travel Experiences, an online magazine that
shares rich and authentic travel stories, whether they’re solo travel or not. Click over and check it out –
maybe you’ll find the inspiration you’ve been looking for.

There’s an awful lot of talk about whether one should travel solo or not. Sure – there are issues like safety, security, and your own physical health that influence a decision like that. But the bottom line is only one person can make that decision: YOU. I’m not going to tell you whether it’s right or wrong to travel solo, and nor can the next person. What I can do is tell you a bit about why I mostly travel solo. I hope it leads you to some internal thought and possibly a better idea of what kind of travel is best for you.
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Posted on January 20, 2010 - by Guest

Getting ready to travel solo: Four top tips for going to India.

Mariellen publishes BreathDreamGo, a blog about travel in India.
This is the first in a series of four monthly posts in which she will share
the highlights of her upcoming trip to India.

I am just about to embark on my fourth solo trip to India in about as many years. This time, of course, feels very different than the first time I left, in December 2005. Back then, I had almost never traveled by myself and had never been anywhere like India (is there anywhere like India?).

But of course everything worked out, I learned a lot about myself, traveling and India, and I’ve put my knowledge to good use by returning several times. Here are the four most important things I’ve learned about traveling solo:

1. Courage is its own reward. The amount you gain by leaving your comfort zone, facing fears and taking risks is immeasurable. Just the massive increase in self-confidence alone was worth all the time, money and energy I spent getting ready to go and seeing that first six-month trip to India through to the end.

2. Preparation is key. Preparation will soothe your anxiety and smooth your trip. Find out about the customs and culture of your destination. For example, dressing modestly is important in India. Plan your itinerary and research transportation and accommodation options. There are lots of resources on the Internet and great advice, too, on sites such as TripAdvisor.com and in forums such as Lonely Planet’s Thorn Tree. Women should check out Journeywoman.com. And don’t forget to bring a guidebook with you: I like Lonely Planet and Rough Guides.

3. Watch your attitude. I often say that going to India is like that scene in Star Wars when Yoda sends Luke into the cave. “What will I find there?” Luke asks. “Only what you bring with you,” Yoda answers. The same is true for traveling. If you bring fear, you will be scared. My advice is to be as open and trusting as you can, while remaining cautious and using common sense, of course. Remember that traveling is just as much about learning about yourself as it is about your destination.

4. Blog! Even if you‘re not a writer, your blog can still be a very satisfying experience for you and your loved ones. Just keep it simple, tell it like it is, and add lots of pictures, even video. It will keep people back home informed and reassured while you’re away and, because it is interactive, it will keep you connected. It also provides you with an invaluable record of your trip after you get back. You can start on a travel blogging site like Travelblog.org, which automatically notifies your subscribers when you update your blog – freeing you of the need to manage email lists. The more technically inclined can set up a blog on Wordpress.com or Blogger.com; or even design their own.

I started out four years ago on Travelblog. Blogging was just a sideline to my six-month trip to India. Now travel blogging is becoming my full-time job! I will be blogging as I travel in India for three months, from late January to early May 2010. I hope you will join me on BreatheDreamGo.com and get inspired to start your own travel blog. See you on the road!

Mariellen Ward
Blog http://breathedreamgo.com/
Twitter breathedreamgo

Posted on January 16, 2010 - by Guest

Solo travel for business and pleasure.

Thank you to JJ for this guest post. JJ is an avid solo traveler who sees the country mostly by RV.

Traveling solo has its advantages and its challenges. The biggest challenge, to me, is not the “what ifs” or the “what may happen,” but more the “can you be alone with yourself?” This is the true joy of solo travel.
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