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Men Traveling Alone: 10 tips

duct tape Men Traveling Alone: 10 tips

Hopefully, you don't have to give up your duct tape to repair the plane. See Tip #9.

Ok guys. It’s your turn now. Last week I published a post with 10 tips for women traveling alone. I promised then that I would publish one for men traveling alone as well. You see, a fellow on twitter  lamented the fact that all the solo travel tips were for women. So here you go. A post of your own.


I’ve written extensively about how to travel alone but I’ve never written a post specifically for men — until now. But, truth be told, I can’t claim credit for most of the ideas. How would I know what they’re up against when men travel alone. So I turned to Brian Peters, publisher of No Debt World Travel and author of the No Debt World Travel package for help. He came through with flying colors which isn’t surprising, he’s traveled solo extensively. Here you go…

10 Tips for Men Traveling Alone

  1. Sit back and let it happen – Men tend to rush in without thinking. Take the time to sit back and let things develop.
  2. She doesn’t love you – Foreign women will come on to men. But they don’t love you. They are likey after a green card or money.
  3. Drinking and drugs abroad - Stay in control. Lose control due to drinking or drugs and you could end up lost, broke or worse.
  4. Risk taking can be a thrill, but don’t push it. – Know your limits. If you’ve never ridden a motorbike before, Thailand is not the place to learn.
  5. Try not to be intimidating – You may not be as approachable as a woman, especially if you’re a big guy, so try to be gentle. Smile, speak calmly and remove sunglasses so that people can see your eyes.
  6. Wrap it up – There was a study on backpackers in Australia which saw that they contracted diseases at a high rate than women. Condoms guys.
  7. Keep the gadgets to a minimum – If you have a great trip planned seeing the sights and making new friends, your use of electronics should kept to a minimum.  Plus they add weight and more things to keep track of.
  8. Protect yourself from pickpockets - Wear pants with a zipped pocket inside the front pocket for keeping valuables. It’s not as good as a money belt but it’s way better than any other pocket. It will reduce the chances of having your wallet stolen.
  9. Take a small roll of duct tape – What guy doesn’t like duct tape. Take along a small roll to fix a suitcase, improve your first aid kit, tape up a privacy screen, entertain locals with your duct tape figurines…
  10. Know that you, too, are vulnerable to muggings – Men sometimes think that women have to worry more about solo travel safety than men but one set of statistics I read says that men are just as likely to be mugged or robbed as women. However, you can use the power of eye contact to your advantage. Prolonged eye contact by a man is considered an act of aggression. Not so for women.

So, there you go. 10 tips for men. If you have others, I really hope that you will add them in the comments below.

Oh,  in case you’re interested, here’s Brian’s download of the No Debt World Travel package. A bit of a disclosure, I haven’t read it so I can’t suggest it one way or another and, if you do buy, I get a bit of a commission. If you want to get a sense of what he did, you can listen to the interview I did with him in the post: Janice Talks About Solo Travel.

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  • angela

    Typical man response.  Macho.

  • http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

    Fine, I’ll (try to) behave. :-| It just seems that they doth protesteth too much about being given travel safety suggestions when said suggestions, TO ME, can clearly be used for men. It’d be different if the tables were turned.

    *goes back to behavior mode* :-|

  • solotraveler

    Now let’s not get a gender war going here.

  • http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

    These sound good to me. The tips seem man-friendly to me. *shrugs* Maybe they don’t like being told what to do/what they should do. They’re men, after all, and know everything.

    :-|

  • solotraveler

    You’re right, and we have discussed in the comments that these tips can be included in a list for women as well. However, if you want to talk in generalizations, they probably apply more to men than women. But I hate generalizations. Yet I published it. Why?

    This post was in response to a complaint that there is so much on the web for women traveling alone and nothing for men.

    I think this is all a matter of positioning. Many blogs are positioned specifically for women but, in reality, travel is pretty gender neutral. I hope you noticed that there are only a few posts on the site that aren’t.

    Thanks for your comment.

  • andy

    You know I read these and my first thought was “duh”.

    But the more I thought about it the more I thought “says who?”

    There are too many unsubstatiated “facts” based on “one study I read”

    Really? Please provide a link.

    Finally, most of these apply to women as well.

  • http://www.mariastaal.com Maria Staal

    I love tip #9! Although I am a woman, I do always travel with a roll of sturdy tape. Very handy to have. :)

  • http://www.hightailcoaching.co.uk Bebhinn O’Loingsigh

    I’d like to add one that I’ve seen a lot. It’s not so much about travelling alone, as not taking care of themselves, particularly cuts and grazes being kept clean. This includes mosquito bites getting infected. I’ve personally known four men in the last 2 months who’ve ended up in hospital on a drip, with blood and tissue infections from what started as a minor cut/bite that got infected. It happens A LOT. People can lose limbs from this. This is aimed at guys as they seem to be less likely to keep wounds clean and dressed, in my experience – sorry to those of you who DO take care of yourselves! Remember, bacteria loves hot and humid environments. Cuts take a lot longer to heal and so need to be taken care of more.

  • solotraveler

    That’s interesting Gary because, as I read these as a woman, I think that most are targeted for men. Interpreted broadly, yes they apply broadly. But women don’t tend to be risk takers the way men are (#4), find it difficult to be intimidating (#5), are less gadget inclined (#7)… You get the idea. I think that they are points more relevant to men than woman.

    What I would really like to know is what tips you would offer men. You’re not only a guy, but you’re the guy of travel blogs- http://everything-everywhere.com.

  • http://everything-everywhere.com Gary Arndt

    There are a lot of websites, ebooks and posts floating around out there on the subject of women traveling alone. There are very few about men traveling alone.

    The fact is, any discussion of men traveling alone will quickly degenerate into tips on how to get laid and where to get drunk. There really isn’t a whole lot about traveling along as a man which deserves its own discussion.

    Of the above 10 points, only #2 really has anything to do with being a man and even that only really is an issue in certain countries (Thailand for example).

    All that being said, if/when someone comes out with the Maxim magazine of travel blogs, I think it might be very successful.

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