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A story of firsts: solo travel in Paris

Hostel ParisThis is a story of firsts. My first day setting foot in Europe and the first day of my first ever solo travel adventure.

It was Paris. The Jules Ferry Hostel.

I arrived at Charles de Gaulle Airport early in the morning and promptly lost my camera. I realized this on the train just before it left the station. I jumped up to go find it and a guy jumped up as well and offered to help. I didn’t find my camera but I did discover how friendly some French men are. To help me overcome my trauma I was offered a few hours in a hotel room – with him of course. I politely declined.

I made it into the city and found the Jules Ferry Hostel near Place de la Republique. I checked in, stowed my stuff and went down to the common room – the best place to meet people when you travel solo.

It didn’t take long. In no time I met a guy from New York City and we headed out to explore Paris. We hung out from noon to midnight. We started at the Centre Pompidou and then went to the Louvre to see Mona of course. We tripped along the Champs-Elysee and around the Eiffel Tower.

Paris Opera House of GarnierSomewhere around 9-9:30pm we headed back to the hostel for the night. On route we passed the Paris Opera House. It was intermission and the street was filled with people. As they all entered for the second act we slipped in with them, went to the top balcony and watched the performance. It’s been almost 25 years so I can’t tell you what we saw — just that it was like a dream.

When we finally made it back to the hostel we sat across the street for a while recounting all that we had done. It had been extraordinary. And then, like bookends to my day, came the invitation. Again, I declined.

French or not, the men in Paris are very friendly.

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  • AD

    Ah Paris….something i’d love to do one day…..

  • http://solotravelerblog.com Janice Waugh

    We do meet more people and have more adventures solo. :)

  • http://solotravelerblog.com Janice Waugh

    I hope it makes you laugh in hindsight. At the moment though, it wouldn’t have been so funny.

  • http://solotravelerblog.com Janice Waugh

    Type your reply…

  • LYankowitz

    I travelled to France, solo, 3 times in my 30′s…and of course always spent some time in Paris.  I remember an honey blond haired Adonis who hung out on one of the few green spaces people are allowed to put down blankets and lay on in Paris…he flirted with me and gave me wine to drink and spoke to me in heavily accented english and I tried out my intermediate French and we rendez-voused there the same time every day a few days in a row, and did some making out….then one day I arrived earlier than usual and he was all over a pretty Asian girl…that was that!

  • Dawnoncalgary

    Oh I totally agree!! I traveled to Paris solo in June of 2010 for 10 days.  I had a wonderful time, if you use your common sense you can enjoy all the male attention in safety. I enjoyed free coffee, wine, lunches & dinners. Met a TON of fantastic people & didn’t think of myself as a lone traveler once! So many lovely memories…can’t wait to go back again…solo!!

  • solotraveler

    :)

  • http://www.farawayeyes.org Scott Hartman

    Ahhhh, but there are women in Paris too . . . twenty eight years ago, on my first Grand Tour, I said “Oui” to one . . . those two months (had only planned on three days!:) are a bookend to a shelf of stories that I can see no end to . . .

  • http://www.jipp-world.blogspot.com jipp

    Haha. Is Paris always the first choice of most people to travel solo? I started in Paris too. Yeah, met a lot of friendly people there but most of them were solo travelers too.

  • http://forum.dotnetpanel.com/members/Bill-Bartmann.aspx Bill Bartmann-

    Hey good stuff…keep up the good work! I read a lot of blogs on a daily basis and for the most part, people lack substance but, I just wanted to make a quick comment to say I’m glad I found your blog. Thanks,)

  • admin

    Oh Julie, that made me laugh. I wouldn’t exactly describe the men I met as rats but in the end, without a ‘yes’, they certainly did just float on by.

  • Julie

    What a small world! About 6 years ago, my first solo trip started in Paris. I also got there in the morning, and headed right for my hostel….the Jules Ferry youth hostel!

    I didn’t have quite the same experience though. The memories of my first day abroad: the hostel was in lock-out until 2pm for cleaning, so I found a croissant and sat by the canal, where I saw a dead rat float by!

    But I guess it goes to show that regardless of how many years apart our trips were, traveling still connects us all!

  • http://www.sonotlost.com/ Ren

    LOL, it’s like “the offer” comes packaged with the rest of the stuff, haha. And, wow, would love to be able to crash ANY theater that way!

  • http://www.WanderingEducators.com/events jessiev

    what fun – i love hearing of people’s first time in paris. mine was idyllic in some ways (lovely hotel, excellent food) and not in others (travel partner wanted to eat at burger king, sigh).

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About Janice Waugh and Tracey Nesbitt

I'm an author, blogger, speaker and traveler. I became a widow and empty-nester at about the same time. And then, I became Solo Traveler... Here's the full story. >>

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