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Women Traveling Alone Part III – 7 Reasons to Go

You may also be interested in Women Traveling Alone Part 1 – Tips and Women Traveling Alone Part II – Destinations.

A twitter friend, @DSXmac, told me that she heard a woman say that all women should travel alone before they get married.

Interesting comment. While I don’t like the “should” word – it’s quite judgmental in my mind, — going solo is a good idea for women — and men — at just about any stage of life. Whether you’ve never been married, are married with kids, divorced, widowed, partnered with an empty nest… here are some great reasons to travel solo.

7 Reasons to Travel Solo

  1. Discover yourself as your discover the world – before you get tied down, learn self-reliance, decision-making and how to organize your time.
  2. Do what you want to do when you want to do it.
  3. Have a last hurrah before you have children.
  4. Discover who you are when you’re not responsible for children or a partner
  5. Take a break from endless daily responsibilities and come back refreshed.
  6. Build confidence after a divorce or loss.
  7. Eat dessert first – do anything you want to do without being judged.

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  • solotraveler

    I haven’t been to Greece since 2000. Why not post this on the Solo Travel Society on Facebook and find out what members know.

  • Gisela

    Thanks for all the tips! I’ve just finally decided to travel to Greece this coming Summer on my own. At first, I was looking for packages with travel agencies but I noticed I didn’t want to follow guidelines and rules and I wanted to do things my way, and, of course, is cheaper so thank you again.
    Any tips or piece of advice you can share with me regarding Greece will be deeply appreciated :D

  • Tanya C

    I couldn’t agree more! My first solo backpacking experience was in Brazil last winter. I had a wonderful time. It was so good that I’m flying solo to Africa this winter. It’ll be my first attempt at climbing Kilimanjaro!!

  • http://www.cocomooloolaba.com.au/ Mooloolaba Accommodaiton

    Inspirational and encouraging – we work in tourism on the Sunshine Coast Queensland Australia and love a visit from any solo travelers – come and stay with us

  • solotraveler

    Karen, you are an inspiration. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • karen Ratcliffe

    In the early seventies when I was done college, I was in my early twenties. It was the time of Europe — dollar a day — no euro for sure. I hiched as far north into arctic circle as I cared to go and as far south in Africa. I did it solo, before kids and partners. Now, at sixty, I have in last three years started over — Great Wall, Pompeii, Machu Pichu — again solo. I have ditched the guilt and am at twenth three countries in five continents and counting. From Burton in Zanzabar ” \of the galdenst moments in human live me thinks, is the departure upon a distant journed into unknown lands.
    shaking off with one might effort the fetters of Habit,the leaden weight of routine and the cloak of many cares.

  • solotraveler

    Again, many of the reasons are definitely relevant for men as well as women though, I have to say, they may be more relevant to more women. The mere fact that women have children and are often the primary caregivers of children and parents makes an opportunity to travel without the responsibility of either more meaningful. Even as equals, women and men have different roles. These different roles lend themselves to different reasons for traveling solo.

    I don’t think that it matters whether women or men spearhead a movement to solo travel. If it happens everyone will benefit.

    You’ll be pleased to know that this post ends my series for women traveling solo. :)

  • http://www.tedsimages.com Ted

    I again apologize for intruding in the ladies’ room. But as a man, I’m inherently dense and therefore lack the ability to understand what is intuitively obvious to every woman.

    In this case, what I don’t understand is why any of the “seven reasons” are specific to women. Indeed, were they included in a hypothetical gender-neutral article called “Solo Travel: 7 Reasons to Go,” I would find them relevant and thought-provoking for both men and women. Perhaps the reasons involving having children and “being responsible for children and a partner” might resonate with women, but I know plenty of men who have children and are responsible for them and a partner.

    I know it’s impossible, but could one or more of you ladies please enlighten me about what I’m missing here?

    (Yes, I’m being facetious. But since I’ve been reading about how the popularity of EAT, PRAY, LOVE is making women’s solo travel “trendy,” I’m beginning to fear that the travel industry will ultimately recognize and welcome solo women as valuable customers while continuing to marginalize solo male travelers.)

  • Lynn Adamson

    Yes, that is the expression I was looking for – an adventurer, an explorer – it is exciting to leave your home and family and responsibilities and “run away” for a while. Talk to people you would never otherwise meet, do things on your own you would never have the courage to try at home and expose yourself to your fears and conquer them……it is the best feeling in the world.

  • http://apatontheback.com Jodi Henderson

    yes yes yes! Those are all great reasons to go and go on your own. I’m going to be taking my first international trip in November and it will be all on my own. I’m generally a solitary person anyway, but there’s something about traveling on my own that makes me think about things a little differently, get a different perspective, etc. I suspect an international trip will do that even more than a quick weekend trip somewhere in the states.

  • solotraveler

    Thanks Meg. I agree. Solo travel is an experience that builds confidence. I hope that Solo Traveler will help all women and men reach their potential on an individual basis.

  • http://priscillamaeetal.blogspot.com Meg Mitchell

    I couldn’t agree more with all the reasons to try traveling solo. I’ve done it several times and each time I set out on my trip, I’m a little (no, alot) scared but once I get there, the fear goes away. It’s the rush that you get that you are actually fighting a fear and not letting it control or keep you from enjoying your life.
    I didn’t start traveling solo until I was older. What’s amazing is the looks you get when you return from other women wishing they had the courage to try that. Then, I feel like an explorer … an incredibly brave one.

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